{"id":238,"date":"2007-05-01T11:02:25","date_gmt":"2007-05-01T09:02:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arjanbr0ere.wordpress.com\/2007\/05\/01\/ury_zegt_nee\/"},"modified":"2007-05-01T11:02:25","modified_gmt":"2007-05-01T09:02:25","slug":"ury_zegt_nee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/2007\/05\/ury_zegt_nee\/","title":{"rendered":"Ury zegt Nee!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:12pt;margin:0;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;font-family:Tahoma;\">Enkele citaten uit het al eerder gesignaleerde <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.managementboek.nl\/boekeninfo.asp?code=nbgqqqhnqrihr\">De kracht van Nee! Positief Nee zeggen om tot Ja te komen<\/a><\/em> van <a href=\"http:\/\/www.williamury.com\/\">William Ury<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:12pt;margin:0;\">\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:12pt;margin:0;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;font-family:Tahoma;\">(&#8230;) je moet afstand nemen van de gebruikelijke veronderstelling dat je gebruik kunt maken van je kracht om te krijgen wat je wilt (ten koste van je relatie) of gebruik kunt maken van de relatie (waarbij je kracht inlevert). Wat werkelijk nodig is, is dat je van beide tegelijkertijd gebruik maakt. Je dient met de ander een respectvolle en constructieve confrontatie aan te gaan. (p. 29).<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:12pt;margin:0;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;font-family:Tahoma;\"><span style=\"color:#00000a;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#00000a;font-family:Tahoma;\">Laat je &#8216;nee&#8217;<span>&nbsp; <\/span>stromen (p. 127)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:12pt;margin:0;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;font-family:Tahoma;\"><span style=\"color:#00000a;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#00000a;font-family:Tahoma;\">Kom tot een \u00b4nee\u00b4 geworteld in een \u00b4ja\u00b4. Geef niet aan wat je niet wilt, maar wees proactief en geef aan wat je wel wilt.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Enkele citaten uit het al eerder gesignaleerde De kracht van Nee! Positief Nee zeggen om tot Ja te komen van William Ury. (&#8230;) je moet afstand nemen van de gebruikelijke veronderstelling dat je gebruik kunt maken van je kracht om&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/2007\/05\/ury_zegt_nee\/\" class=\"more-link\">Lees verder <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-boeken"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4qQkP-3Q","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/238\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.arjanbroere.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}